THE SINGLE LIFE??♂
Being single doesn’t necessarily mean that you cannot handle a relationship. In fact, being single is a privilege and I do not want you to feel bad or feel inferior as a person because your peers/friends are into relationships and you are not. This is a time to figure out the mistakes you have made in your past relationships and try and correct them, so that it doesn’t affect your next relationship.
Make wise decisions, put yourself together, enjoy your single life, but have limits.
It’s better to be single, than to be in a wrong/abusive relationship, so don’t get jealous of those in relationships. Don’t get me wrong. It’s amazing knowing someone loves and cares about you and you also feel the same way towards that person.
Also know that being single is a choice, and watch it! Do not get too comfortable in this single phase. Being single doesn’t also mean you don’t know anything about love. So don’t waste your time looking for love, use this time to work on yourself and also develop yourself as an individual.
NOTE: Being in a relationship doesn’t determine the level of your happiness.
People often ask, “Precious, why are you still single?” And I give the same reply over and over again, “I am not emotionally ready to handle a relationship.”
Now, a lot comes with dating. There are romantic times; YES! There are bad times; I am not yet ready for sleepless night. I am not ready to quarrel with anybody and then keep looking at my phone expecting him to call or text me. I am not ready to have unnecessary drama right now.
I am trying to build and develop myself as a woman: physically, mentally, socially, and emotionally. Sincerely, I really admire those in relationships. When you talk about relationships/dating, everyone’s mind is focused on the kissing and smooching aspect…LOL… There is more to this thing called RELATIONSHIP.