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THE SINGLE LIFE

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THE SINGLE LIFE??‍♂

Being single doesn’t necessarily mean that you cannot handle a relationship. In fact, being single is a privilege and I do not want you to feel bad or feel inferior as a person because your peers/friends are into relationships and you are not. This is a time to figure out the mistakes you have made in your past relationships and try and correct them, so that it doesn’t affect your next relationship.

Make wise decisions, put yourself together, enjoy your single life, but have limits.

It’s better to be single, than to be in a wrong/abusive relationship, so don’t get jealous of those in relationships. Don’t get me wrong. It’s amazing knowing someone loves and cares about you and you also feel the same way towards that person.

Also know that being single is a choice, and watch it! Do not get too comfortable in this single phase. Being single doesn’t also mean you don’t know anything about love. So don’t waste your time looking for love, use this time to work on yourself and also develop yourself as an individual.

NOTE: Being in a relationship doesn’t determine the level of your happiness.

People often ask, “Precious, why are you still single?” And I give the same reply over and over again, “I am not emotionally ready to handle a relationship.”

Now, a lot comes with dating. There are romantic times; YES! There are bad times; I am not yet ready for sleepless night. I am not ready to quarrel with anybody and then keep looking at my phone expecting him to call or text me. I am not ready to have unnecessary drama right now.

I am trying to build and develop myself as a woman: physically, mentally, socially, and emotionally. Sincerely, I really admire those in relationships. When you talk about relationships/dating, everyone’s mind is focused on the kissing and smooching aspect…LOL… There is more to this thing called RELATIONSHIP.

XOXO
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16 Comments
  • Dorcas
    January 14, 2018

    beautiful

  • Goodyblis
    January 15, 2018

    Nice write up..keep up the good inspiration

  • Anonymous
    January 15, 2018

    Nice…keep up

  • Anonymous
    January 15, 2018

    Being single doesn’t determine the level of your happiness.i concur

  • Anonymous me
    January 15, 2018

    Dz z lovely, young ladies need to kW dis

  • Alexander
    January 16, 2018

    Yeah, Nigerian girls really do need to spend more time building themselves. Keep inspiring them to unleash their potential ?

  • Anonymous
    January 17, 2018

    Nice piece! Well done girl

  • Anonymous
    January 17, 2018

    Nice piece. Well done girl!

  • Anonymous
    February 11, 2018

    Relationships are really beautiful cos of the moments but the quarrels, nah I can’t deal. No one likes unecessary nagging so yeah it’s best for one to chill and develop mentally, physically, etc. Nice write up P?

  • Greg Sam
    February 11, 2018

    Relationships are really beautiful cos of the moments but the quarrels, nah I can’t deal. No one likes unecessary nagging so yeah it’s best for one to chill and develop mentally, physically, etc. Nice write up P??

  • Anonymous
    February 21, 2018

    I love this cause it actually helps me to know am not the only one being pressured into a relationship

  • Ananymous
    February 21, 2018

    This a very lovely piece i rili lyk the write up tz rili nyc kip it up.

  • fejiro
    February 26, 2018

    nice write
    up

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  • Faves.O
    April 5, 2019

    Lol..
    Ih precuous, how you hit the nail on the head.
    Njce one.

  • Kinta
    June 19, 2019

    Thank you Precious.
    Apparently every woman/girl would have to go through the “single nd not searching but trying to build ur self phase”
    Thank u precious for putting it out there that the whole idea of a relationship is way more than it seems. ( it’s not just about smooching nd kissing..lol)
    Thank you also for affirming to the fact that finding ur self is very important.
    Nd I think men should try to find themselves too.

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